I’m forced to be looking now or not, interested or not, partnered or not. Online, I’m forced to be a top, bottom, or vers.
It has reduced the richness of queer male sexuality into something simple.
This has resulted in the widespread misconception among queer men that everyone must fall into one category or another. Modern technology - sex sites and hookup apps - created “top,” “bottom,” and “versatile.” When sexual identities are codified - literally into code - sex roles become tags, filtering options, search parameters.
